"You Make Me So Hot . . . "

We all know our men get turned on by what they see. But it's much more than just a naked or scantily clad female body that does the trick. While dressing sexy is important, the way you display yourself to your husband can make all the difference in the world.

A short look at advertising toward men reveals a lot about how to look sexy. Sure the women are dressed sexy, but their faces also have a lot to do with it.

If you take some time to look at men's magazines (anything from FHM to Playboy) one thing I notice is that the models don't necessarily smile in all the photos. Less than half actually. The more erotic the picture, the less likely the model is to be smiling. She looks hungry -- desperate -- lusty.

And there is the key. Again it's mental. You have to want sex and you should look like you want it. A sexually desperate woman is a real turn on to a man.

When you are seducing your husband, dress sexy but also act the part. Want sex. Crave your orgasm and show him how much you want it. "You make me so hot" is the refrain from an Avril Lavigne song and it applies. Touch yourself in ways that feel good. Caress your breasts and nipples. Slide your hand into your thong. Pursue your pleasure. Be greedy. Your desperation for sex will enhance your husband's enjoyment also. There's a reason men fantasize about nymphomaniacs.