I Just Can't Get Enough

My wife and I have been married well over ten years now. We estimated the other day that at a minimum, a very conservative estimate would be that we've had sex well over a thousand times. Probably more in the 1200-1400 range.

After the initial "honeymoon phase" we settled into a fairly routine once or twice a week mode - - taking off every fourth week or so with occasional bursts to maybe three or four times a week. More recently, as we began to talk more openly about our marriage and our expectations both in and out of the bedroom, we're having sex four to five times a week.

The sex we used to have was good, but pretty vanilla. As our communication has improved our sex life has become much more exciting, pleasurable and fulfilling. We're trying new things and talking about what we like and don't like.

I'm finding new ways to keep my wife interested. My favorite thing to do is make sure she has no excuse not to have sex with me. Many times wives are too tired for sex because of taking care of the kids, doing laundry, cooking dinner, etc. So sometimes I'll take the initiative and try and do everything I can think of to make sure there is no reason for her not to have sex.

You may have read before that sex makes you want sex. The more sex you have, the more sex you want. This is very true. The more great sex I have with my wife, the more I want her. I notice how sexy she is now more than I ever have. When we're together I can't take my eyes off her. Even if we just had sex the night before, the next day I want her again. The good thing is, she doesn't seem to mind.

There is a myth that sex with the same person becomes stale and boring. I guess it can get that way if you let it, but I remain firmly convinced that the more you commit yourself to having great sex with the person you decided to marry the better your chances of having great sex for your entire life.