Using Technology to Build Sexual Tension

Over at Brakar.com, aka "The good guy's guide to living with a woman", he references an article in Men's Health that talks about Chinese men using email for follow up after a successful date to keep their prospect interested.

My Hot Sexy Wife and I like to do the same thing. Short notes by email or text message let your spouse know you are thinking about them all day long and looking very forward to seeing them later tonight.

For the wives: if you're husband is a habitual late-worker or you just really want to drive your husband wild, odds are your cellphone is a camera phone. Yep! Just imagine him at work or sitting in a boring meeting and getting a sexy picture of you showing him what you'll be wearing when he gets home. You can bet he'll be there in time for dinner.

Your phone may even take and send video and video with sound. Ah! just imagine the possibilities!

You will want to make sure that the receiving phone has the capability to display either pictures or the video you send, so if you're shopping for new phones this would be a great time to ask. If you plan on using your existing phones, just check the model number (if not anywhere else, it's usually under the battery) and call your service provider or just look it up on the internet.

If you choose email (you can also send pictures and video in email) be sure that it is OK to send to that address. Some company email addresses are monitored and a copy of your sexy photos might end up in the wrong hands. And if you choose to use the "safer" celphone message, get the number right. This would not be a good time for a wrong number!

My Hot Sexy Wife is a firm believer in anticipation. And with today's technology there are a lot of great ways to anticipate your spouse into a frenzy!

Comments

[Hot Sexy Wife]

It's true--anticipation is great! I love to do something during the day that I know turns my husband on. Then, when he begins to respond, I remind him that he is supposed to be anticipating--not participating! It's just a fun way to build some suspense and tension, because he knows I will follow through later.

My creative and passionate Husband is actually better than I am about using technology to create some anticipation. My job doesn't allow for much spare time or access to a computer or my phone during the day. But I am often on the receiving end of fun e-mails or text messages! It is a nice lift during the day to know your spouse is thinking of you! Sometimes the messages are romantic, and sometimes they are sexy. One time, when he knew I was going shopping for clothes and would be trying them on--he even sent a message about thinking of me and imagining me naked. And the irony was, I received the message while in a dressing room!

The power of a few sexy words or a sexy image during the workday can be powerful stuff. And just think, ladies, of how it would help keep your husband's mind on YOU, instead of the myriad of sexy images with which our husbands are bombarded daily. (Not to mention co-workers who might flirt or dress provocatively.) We might as well put all this technology to good use--and what better way then to promote a fun, healthy sex life!